Whether you are a spanker or spankee the derriere is most likely at the core of your sexuality. These meaty hind quarters are not just for spanking but an anatomy that is also there to be worshiped. Every night I am placed over my husband's knee. Not for a spanking but for some tender loving care. Ever so slowly he rubs lotion on my bottom and massages it for me. It feels great! A girls derriere must remain soft and tender at all times. I'm sure all you spanker's out there would agree.