Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Wikipedia says (embarrassment is an emotional state experienced upon having a socially or professionally unacceptable act or condition witnessed by or revealed to others. Usually some amount of loss of honour or dignity is involved, but how much and the type depends on the embarrassing situation. It is similar to shame, except that shame may be experienced for an act known only to oneself. Also, embarrassment usually carries the connotation of being caused by an act that is merely socially unacceptable, rather than morally wrong.)
So is getting spanked embarrassing and if so is that a turn on for you? Having my pants pulled down and spanked on the bare ass is not embarrassing if only my hubby is present but on occasion done in somewhat public places like say a park bench does make me blush with embarrassment. Also the thought of getting caught is an immense turn on! Socially unacceptable, I guess that is true since spanking anyone in public especially a grown woman is not considered the norm. My next question is does the embarrassment factor feed into our enjoyment for spanking? For example when I was younger and spanked in front of my entire family by my uncle I was soooo embarrassed that my hate for being spanked in front of family grew into my love for it as an adult. Perhaps it's the trauma of being so embarrassed and ashamed that later developed into a fetish and not the pain of spanking itself.
Lets face it, spankings hurt but it's not the worst pain one can experience. I would love to here your thoughts and on the matter and what might of contributed to your love for spanking. Was it the embarrassment factor?
Posted by OldFashionGirl at 11:39 AM