Sunday, May 22, 2011

A firm but loving hand

I've enjoyed spanking as far as I can remember. When I was younger I would often fantasize about an older (father figure) man spanking my bottom when I misbehaved. My father passed away when I was very young so perhaps that is why I felt this way. John Wayne always came to mind and though I never found him to be a "hottie" he was the perfect spanker in my mind. I myself was spanked once at the age of thirteen by my Uncle Joe and even though I hated it I would often think back to that dreadful day and yearn for more. My uncle is far from being attractive but it's the idea of an older firm handed man spanking me. Why this fascination with spanking as an adult? I was never spanked at a very young age but I do remember when I was around four or five witnessing my boy cousin get a very sound spanking from his father. I was so terrified I began to cry. Then I met my husband years later who is not much older then me but his traditional values and machismo brings John Wayne to mind.
He's a very affectionate man but has no problem putting me in my place with a sound spanking. The fact that I find him very attractive increases the rush. Like a spoiled child I'm laying across his masculine lap feeling the burn from his firm powerful hand. I just thought I share some of my deep inner feelings with you all, my fine readers. Until next time. xoxo


Aunty Andrea said...

At least there are some spanking scenes that John Wayne filmed, you can watch when you want to scratch that itch.

Njspank said...

Good day,

What a lovely post and thank you for sharing part of who you are, you are wonderful.

So happy you and your husband have found a nice place and that his lap is perfect for you. Amazing.

I wonder sometimes while I was spanked a lot growing up, if we all have some "things" we did in life that we were not spanked for? Me, yes, many, despite the brushings I got from mom, aunts and neighbors,and oh the nuns. I know there are some misdeeds that I was not spanked for!!

Also the first spanking I saw where there was that "twinge" in a certain place was my frineds sister who was spanked long and hard over her mom's lap on her blue panties!!

So somewhere it all adds up but as long as it is fun or erotic or therapudic, spankings are just great.

Be well and again thanks for your insight.

Best wishes

CindysDave said...

I just love your blog and anxiously await your updates. Love the photos and your spankable pink bottom. Please keep it up!

How often would you say you are spanked? Seems fairly often from the number of photo updates.

Hugs and swats,

OldFashionGirl said...

Hi Dave and welcome. I get spanked about 2 to 4 times a week. We record my spankings (that's where the photo's come from) about 2-3 times a month.

Njspank said...


2 to 4 times a week is heaven for your husband!! An us!


becky said...

I agree with you.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing something of your inner life, Veronica. While the pictures are pretty to look at, it's the authenticity of the experience that really matters.

It's fascinating to read about how your interest evolved.

What did you do to deserve that spanking from your uncle? I'm guessing it wasn't for borrowing his videotapes without permission.

Karl Friedrich Gauss

And how did you first learn about his own interest in the subject. Sorry if you've already written about these topics.

I do remember how you told about how you contrived to be spanked so your uncle could overhear what was happening. That was so sweet of you.

You're such a generous girl, Veronica. Thanks again for sharing your life with all of us on the interwebs!

Anonymous said...

love your blog veronica love and spanks ,tim xx

Anonymous said...

Lovely words, Veronica
Oh my ! So right you are young lady. I totally agree. As does my hubby ! :-)
And I was also raised to feel a strict, firm loving hand...or in actual fact a firm, loving smack of a rattan cane across my bare backside !! From my mom. No nonsense. No wishy-washy thinking on discipline in our house.

"The rod of correction" was kind Veronica. It was firm, loving, mommy-approved discipline when I was a lil' girl growing up in Georgia in the 1960s. My sister and I were raised in a strict, traditional household. The "rod" (a flexible rattan switch applied to our bare botties !) was part of Church faith, social mores and strict, family values. There was no anti-spanking movement at that time. There were no naughty steps back then Veronica ! I am now in my 50s Veronica.

When we were naughty, mommy fetched the whippy, switch and two lil' pairs of cotton panties came down. Botties were bared, period ! No debate or delay - punishment was always on bare skin with the rattan !! It was totally harmless veronica. But oh my, extremely uncomfortable at the time ! Oh my, we screamed .Quite right too- that is the idea of spanking. Punishment on a bare behind, as my mom said ! Nothing less.

Panties down made a switchin' safe and controlled. Mommy could see what the switchy-cane was doing to the fairy-soft, alabaster-white skin on our naughty bums. It was firm but loving Southern discipline. I have told many younger friends and family about my mother's spankings over the years...much to the horror of many Veronica ha-ha. Oh my ! (younger girls, Europeans and anti-spankers)

I guess it was just part of growing up for me in Ol' fashioned Atlanta, Veronica. And for you and your peers too - that spanking domestic culture for naughty daughters ! My mother is now in her 80s and still holds the same views. Oucheees. But I grew up happy and successful. Tough Love worked for me, but I did not have any choice in those strict "Good Ol' days" of the 1960s/70s !!
Nostalgic Naughty Lil' Daughter Brenda xx